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<h2>CHILDREN IN MIDWINTER</h2> Children are so flowerlike that it is always a little fresh surprise to see them blooming in winter.  Their tenderness, their down, their colour, their fulness—which is like that of a thick rose or of a tight grape—look out of season.  Children in the withering wind are like the soft golden-pink roses that fill the barrows in Oxford Street, breathing a southern calm on the north wind.  The child has something better than warmth in the cold, something more subtly out of place and more delicately contrary; and that is coolness.  To be cool in the cold is the sign of a vitality quite exquisitely alien from the common conditions of the world.  It is to have a naturally, and not an artificially, different and separate climate. We can all be more or less warm—with fur, with skating, with tea, with fire, and with sleep—in the winter.  But the child is fresh in the wind, and wakes cool from his dreams, dewy when there is hoar-frost everywhere else; he is “more lovely and more temperate” than the summer day and than the winter day alike.  He overcomes both heat and cold by another climate, which is the climate of life; but that victory of life is more delicate and more surprising in the tyranny of January.  By the sight and the touch of children, we are, as it were, indulged with something finer than a fruit or a flower in untimely bloom.  The childish bloom is always untimely.  The fruit and flower will be common later on; the strawberries will be a matter of course anon, and the asparagus dull in its day.  But a child is a perpetual primeur. Or rather he is not in truth always untimely.  Some few days in the year are his own season—unnoticed days of March or April, soft, fresh and equal, when the child sleeps and rises with the sun.  Then he looks as though he had his brief season, and ceases for a while to seem strange. It is no wonder that we should try to attribute the times of the year to children; their likeness is so rife among annuals.  For man and woman we are naturally accustomed to a longer rhythm; their metre is so obviously their own, and of but a single stanza, without repetition, without renewel, without refrain.  But it is by an intelligible illusion that we look for a quick waxing and waning in the lives of young children—for a waxing that shall come again another time, and for a waning that shall not be final, shall not be fatal.  But every winter shows us how human they are, and how they are little pilgrims and visitants among the things that look like their kin.  For every winter shows them free from the east wind; more perfectly than their elders, they enclose the climate of life.  And, moreover, with them the climate of life is the climate of the spring of life; the climate of a human March that is sure to make a constant progress, and of a human April that never hesitates.  The child “breathes April and May”—an inner April and his own May. The winter child looks so much the more beautiful for the season as his most brilliant uncles and aunts look less well.  He is tender and gay in the east wind.  Now more than ever must the lover beware of making a comparison between the beauty of the admired woman and the beauty of a child.  He is indeed too wary ever to make it.  So is the poet.  As comparisons are necessary to him, he will pay a frankly impossible homage, and compare a woman’s face to something too fine, to something it never could emulate.  The Elizabethan lyrist is safe among lilies and cherries, roses, pearls, and snow.  He undertakes the beautiful office of flattery, and flatters with courage.  There is no hidden reproach in the praise.  Pearls and snow suffer, in a sham fight, a mimic defeat that does them no harm, and no harm comes to the lady’s beauty from a competition so impossible.  She never wore a lily or a coral in the colours of her face, and their beauty is not hers.  But here is the secret: she is compared with a flower because she could not endure to be compared with a child.  That would touch her too nearly.  There would be the human texture and the life like hers, but immeasurably more lovely.  No colour, no surface, no eyes of woman have ever been comparable with the colour, the surface, and the eyes of childhood.  And no poet has ever run the risk of such a defeat.  Why, it is defeat enough for a woman to have her face, however well-favoured, close to a child’s, even if there is no one by who should be rash enough to approach them still nearer by a comparison. This, needless to say, is true of no other kind of beauty than that beauty of light, colour, and surface to which the Elizabethans referred, and which suggested their flatteries in disfavour of the lily.  There are, indeed, other adult beauties, but those are such as make no allusions to the garden.  What is here affirmed is that the beautiful woman who is widely and wisely likened to the flowers, which are inaccessibly more beautiful, must not, for her own sake, be likened to the always accessible child. Besides light and colour, children have a beauty of finish which is much beyond that of more finished years.  This gratuitous addition, this completeness, is one of their unexpected advantages.  Their beauty of finish is the peculiarity of their first childhood, and loses, as years are added, that little extra character and that surprise of perfection.  A bloom disappears, for instance.  In some little children the whole face, and especially all the space between the growth of the eyebrows and the growth of the hair, is covered with hardly perceptible down as soft as bloom.  Look then at the eyebrows themselves.  Their line is as definite as in later life, but there is in the child the flush given by the exceeding fineness of the delicate hairs.  Moreover, what becomes, afterwards, of the length and the curl of the eyelash?  What is there in growing up that is destructive of a finish so charming as this? Queen Elizabeth forbade any light to visit her face “from the right or from the left” when her portrait was a-painting.  She was an observant woman, and liked to be lighted from the front.  It is a light from the right or from the left that marks an elderly face with minute shadows.  And you must place a child in such a light, in order to see the finishing and parting caress that infancy has given to his face.  The down will then be found even on the thinnest and clearest skin of the middle red of his cheek.  His hair, too, is imponderably fine, and his nails are not much harder than petals. To return to the child in January.  It is his month for the laying up of dreams.  No one can tell whether it is so with all children, or even with a majority; but with some children, of passionate fancy, there occurs now and then a children’s dance, or a party of any kind, which has a charm and glory mingled with uncertain dreams.  Never forgotten, and yet never certainly remembered as a fact of this life, is such an evening.  When many and many a later pleasure, about the reality of which there never was any kind of doubt, has been long forgotten, that evening—as to which all is doubt—is impossible to forget.  In a few years it has become so remote that the history of Greece derives antiquity from it.  In later years it is still doubtful, still a legend. The child never asked how much was fact.  It was always so immeasurably long ago that the sweet party happened—if indeed it happened.  It had so long taken its place in that past wherein lurks all the antiquity of the world.  No one would know, no one could tell him, precisely what occurred.  And who can know whether—if it be indeed a dream—he has dreamt it often, or has dreamt once that he had dreamt it often?  That dubious night is entangled in repeated visions during the lonely life a child lives in sleep; it is intricate with illusions.  It becomes the most mysterious and the least worldly of all memories, a spiritual past.  The word pleasure is too trivial for such a remembrance.  A midwinter long gone by contained the suggestion of such dreams; and the midwinter of this year must doubtless be preparing for the heart of many an ardent young child a like legend and a like antiquity.  For the old it is a mere present. <div style="break-after:column;"></div>

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