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<hr style="width: 65%;" /><p><span class="pagenum"><SPAN name="Page_57" id="Page_57"></SPAN></span><br/><span class="pagenum"><SPAN name="Page_58" id="Page_58">[58]</SPAN></span></p> <h2><span class="smcap">Lesson VIII.</span></h2> <hr style="width: 65%;" /> <div class='bbox'><h3>OUTLINE FOR BLACKBOARD.</h3> <div class="figcenter"> <ANTIMG src="images/divider.png" width-obs="150" height-obs="9" alt="Divider" title="" /></div> <div class='center'>MANNERS AT CHURCH.<br/> <b>——————————</b></div> <div class='center'> <table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" summary="Notes for blackboard"> <tr><td align='left'><i>Punctuality.</i><br/> <i>Manner of entering.</i><br/> <i>Courtesy toward ladies.</i><br/> <i>Courtesy toward strangers.</i><br/> <i>Whispering, laughing, and moving about.</i><br/> <i>Dress at church.</i><br/> <i>Turning the head to see who comes in.</i><br/> <i>Attention to the service.</i><br/> <i>Dropping hymn-books.</i><br/> <i>Manner of leaving.</i><br/></td></tr> </table></div> <br/><br/></div> <hr style="width: 65%;" /><p><span class="pagenum"><SPAN name="Page_59" id="Page_59"></SPAN></span></p> <h2>LESSON VIII.</h2> <div class='chaptertitle'>MANNERS AT CHURCH.</div> <p><span class="smcap">We</span> should try never to be late at church; it is a disrespect to the place and the worship; it breaks in upon the service, takes the attention of people from it, and disturbs the minister. If we are late, we must not go in during prayer time, but wait near the door.</p> <p>We should enter a church quietly and soberly. Boys should be as particular as gentlemen to remove their hats at the door, not half-way up the aisle, and to open the pew door for ladies to pass in first. If they are in the pew beforehand, they should rise and pass out for ladies to enter.</p> <p>When a seat is given us in a strange church, we should not take it without acknowledgment. We should welcome strangers to our pew, hand them a book with the place found, and invite them to come again. If we notice any one near us who cannot find the hymn or place to read, we should quietly pass him our open book.</p> <p>It is worse to whisper or laugh in church than anywhere else, for it is not only ill-bred but irreverent. We should avoid moving about in our pews, looking around at people, opening or shutting books, and whatever disturbs the quiet of the place.</p> <p>It is not in good taste to wear much jewelry at<span class="pagenum"><SPAN name="Page_60" id="Page_60"></SPAN></span> church, or showy articles of any kind that will attract attention. A house of worship is no place for striking effects in costume, such as might be proper at a party or place of amusement.</p> <p>We often see persons in church turn their heads whenever the door is opened, to see who is coming in. Such a disregard of good manners well deserved the rebuke it received once from a Scotch minister, who, annoyed by this habit, astonished his congregation one Sunday morning by announcing to them the name of each late comer as he entered.</p> <p>If we cannot give respectful attention to the service, we had better stay at home, and not disturb those who go to church to worship.</p> <p>The clergyman is often annoyed by the dropping of hymn-books or prayer-books noisily into the rack, especially at the close of the last hymn, when he is waiting to pronounce the benediction. This might be done as well and better without any noise whatever.</p> <p>It is rude in the extreme to seize hats and rush for the door as soon as the last word is said, or to engage at once in idle chatter and laughter. There should be a reverent pause, and then we should pass slowly and quietly down the aisle. It is ill-bred to seem in haste to be gone. Unless we can sit through the service with patience, we should not attend it. Looking at the clock or taking out one's watch during service comes under the same condemnation as leaving with unbecoming haste at the close.</p> <div style="break-after:column;"></div><br />

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