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<h2>V</h2>
<h2>HABIT-FORMING BY CONCENTRATION</h2>
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<p>As soon as the will has got the upper hand
of the brain—as soon as it can say to
the brain, with a fair certainty of being
obeyed: 'Do this. Think along these
lines, and continue to do so without
wandering until I give you leave to stop'—then
is the time arrived when the perfecting
of the human machine may be
undertaken in a large and comprehensive
spirit, as a city council undertakes the
purification and reconstruction of a city.
The tremendous possibilities of an obedient
brain will be perceived immediately we
begin to reflect upon what we mean by
our 'character.' Now, a person's character
is, and can be, nothing else but the
total result of his habits of thought. A
person is benevolent because he habitually
thinks benevolently. A person is idle
because his thoughts dwell habitually on
the instant pleasures of idleness. It is
true that everybody is born with certain
predispositions, and that these predispositions
influence very strongly the early
formation of habits of thought. But the
fact remains that the character is built
by long-continued habits of thought. If
the mature edifice of character usually
shows in an exaggerated form the peculiarities
of the original predisposition, this
merely indicates a probability that the
slow erection of the edifice has proceeded
at haphazard, and that reason has not
presided over it. A child may be born
with a tendency to bent shoulders. If
nothing is done, if on the contrary he
becomes a clerk and abhors gymnastics,
his shoulders will develop an excessive
roundness, entirely through habit.
Whereas, if his will, guided by his reason,
had compelled the formation of a corrective
physical habit, his shoulders might
have been, if not quite straight, nearly so.
Thus a physical habit! The same with
a mental habit.</p>
<p>The more closely we examine the
development of original predispositions,
the more clearly we shall see that this
development is not inevitable, is not a
process which works itself out independently
according to mysterious, ruthless
laws which we cannot understand.
For instance, the effect of an original predisposition
may be destroyed by an
accidental shock. A young man with an
inherited tendency to alcohol may develop
into a stern teetotaller through the shock
caused by seeing his drunken father strike
his mother; whereas, if his father had
chanced to be affectionate in drink, the
son might have ended in the gutter. No
ruthless law here! It is notorious, also,
that natures are sometimes completely
changed in their development by chance
momentary contact with natures stronger
than themselves. 'From that day I
resolved—' etc. You know the phrase.
Often the resolve is not kept; but often
it is kept. A spark has inflamed the will.
The burning will has tyrannised over the
brain. New habits have been formed.
And the result looks just like a miracle.</p>
<p>Now, if these great transformations can
be brought about by accident, cannot
similar transformations be brought about
by a reasonable design? At any rate, if
one starts to bring them about, one starts
with the assurance that transformations
are not impossible, since they have
occurred. One starts also in the full
knowledge of the influence of habit on
life. Take any one of your own habits,
mental or physical. You will be able to
recall the time when that habit did not
exist, or if it did exist it was scarcely
perceptible. And you will discover that
nearly all your habits have been formed
unconsciously, by daily repetitions which
bore no relation to a general plan, and
which you practised not noticing. You
will be compelled to admit that your
'character,' as it is to-day, is a structure
that has been built almost without the
aid of an architect; higgledy-piggledy,
anyhow. But occasionally the architect
did step in and design something. Here
and there among your habits you will
find one that you consciously and of deliberate
purpose initiated and persevered
with—doubtless owing to some happy
influence. What is the difference between
that conscious habit and the unconscious
habits? None whatever as regards its
effect on the sum of your character. It
may be the strongest of all your habits.
The only quality that differentiates it
from the others is that it has a definite
object (most likely a good object), and
that it wholly or partially fulfils that
object. There is not a man who reads
these lines but has, in this detail or that,
proved in himself that the will, forcing
the brain to repeat the same action again
and again, can modify the shape of his
character as a sculptor modifies the shape
of damp clay.</p>
<p>But if a grown man's character is
developing from day to day (as it is), if
nine-tenths of the development is due to
unconscious action and one-tenth to conscious
action, and if the one-tenth conscious
is the most satisfactory part of the
total result; why, in the name of common
sense, henceforward, should not nine-tenths,
instead of one-tenth, be due to
conscious action? What is there to
prevent this agreeable consummation?
There is nothing whatever to prevent it—except
insubordination on the part of
the brain. And insubordination of the
brain can be cured, as I have previously
shown. When I see men unhappy and
inefficient in the craft of <i>living</i>, from sheer,
crass inattention to their own development;
when I see misshapen men building
up businesses and empires, and never
stopping to build up themselves; when I
see dreary men expending precisely the
same energy on teaching a dog to walk on
its hind-legs as would brighten the whole
colour of their own lives, I feel as if I
wanted to give up the ghost, so ridiculous,
so fatuous does the spectacle seem! But,
of course, I do not give up the ghost.
The paroxysm passes. Only I really must
cry out: 'Can't you see what you're
missing? Can't you see that you're
missing the most interesting thing on
earth, far more interesting than businesses,
empires, and dogs? Doesn't it strike
you how clumsy and short-sighted you
are—working always with an inferior
machine when you might have a smooth-gliding
perfection? Doesn't it strike you
how badly you are treating yourself?'</p>
<p>Listen, you confirmed grumbler, you
who make the evening meal hideous with
complaints against destiny—for it is you
I will single out. Are you aware what
people are saying about you behind your
back? They are saying that you render
yourself and your family miserable by the
habit which has grown on you of always
grumbling. 'Surely it isn't as bad as
that?' you protest. Yes, it is just as
bad as that. You say: 'The fact is, I
know it's absurd to grumble. But I'm like
that. I've tried to stop it, and I can't!'
How have you tried to stop it? 'Well,
I've made up my mind several times to
fight against it, but I never succeed. This
is strictly between ourselves. I don't
usually admit that I'm a grumbler.'
Considering that you grumble for about
an hour and a half every day of your life,
it was sanguine, my dear sir, to expect to
cure such a habit by means of a solitary
intention, formed at intervals in the brain
and then forgotten. No! You must do
more than that. If you will daily fix
your brain firmly for half an hour on the
truth (you know it to be a truth) that
grumbling is absurd and futile, your brain
will henceforward begin to form a habit
in that direction; it will begin to be
moulded to the idea that grumbling is
absurd and futile. In odd moments,
when it isn't thinking of anything in
particular, it will suddenly remember that
grumbling is absurd and futile. When
you sit down to the meal and open your
mouth to say: 'I can't think what my
ass of a partner means by—' it will
remember that grumbling is absurd and
futile, and will alter the arrangement of
your throat, teeth, and tongue, so that
you will say: 'What fine weather we're
having!' In brief, it will remember
involuntarily, by a new habit. All who
look into their experience will admit that
the failure to replace old habits by new
ones is due to the fact that at the critical
moment the brain does not remember;
it simply forgets. The practice of concentration
will cure that. All depends
on regular concentration. This grumbling
is an instance, though chosen not
quite at hazard.</p>
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